Speak Up & Speak Out

Last night, my university (IPFW) was holding an event featuring Martin Luther King Jr's niece, Alveda King.

I attended because I thought it was pretty cool to have the opportunity to hear a member of the King family speak. Secondly, I attended because I know of Alveda's history of anti-gay comments. I have to say, last night, she outdid herself and I was unable to remain silent.

While answering a question from the audience concerning LGBT people, Alveda responded by sharing a story of her male gay friend. She ended the story by stating that she asked him, "What sin do you think is greater? Homosexuality or adultery? Which one do you think will send you to hell first?"

Which one do you think will send you to hell first?

Most of you are like me. We grew up listening to this message. You and I both know the pain, confusion and agony that message has caused in our lives. Many of us have since healed from that pain and some are still healing. However, I think its safe to say, all of us wish someone would have spoken up.

Last night, I couldn't remain silent.

So, I spoke up for that one person who might have been in that auditorium who is continuously beaten emotionally and spiritually with that message. "God loves gay people," I shouted. "Yes he does," Alveda responded. "God loves AND affirms gay people," I contended. To that, she had no response.

I wasn't interested in changing her mind or starting an argument. That is not how an authentic change of heart and mind occurs. I was only interested in speaking to that one person who might have needed to hear that God loves and affirms them as an LGBT person.

LGBT people too often are dehumanized, demonized and lied about by religious leaders who use their faith to justify their hate and distain. I refuse to remain silent in those moments. If there is anything I've learned from the life and work of MLK Jr it would be... listen to the oppressed and down trodden then speak up and speak out for those who can't.

The "God vs. Gay" debate is over. The religious right knows this. Now is the time to share the truth.

I hope you too will choose to speak up.

Even if its just for one person in the room.

Be love,
Azariah Southworth